There are few things I have done WRONG as LONG as I have BEEN alive as Thinking I Know What Is Best For Someone Else.
And the really sad part of that is that NEVER EVER and NOT ONCE have I used that marvelous 20-20 x-ray visuality on myself…
Seriously, isn’t that The Most Peculious and Ridankulous way of BEing a human?!
I am NOT saying I have always been wrong about these things [even though I have been, 100% of the time] but I AM saying this has been the most wrong way to BE, something I’ve never, until just recently, appreciated. [much less seen]
I have NOT a clue what is best or necessary for MY process.
And you know, as I wrote that I realised that it is that very thing that makes it all the easier for me to think I know what is best or necessary for another’s process.
It’s NOT that anyone is asking me…
THAT’S the key ingredient, by the way, BEing asked.
BEcause I ask when I need perspective I know I don’t have.
And when I ask, oftentimes I get an entirely new perspective.
BUT… I have asked for it.
Sought it out deliberately.
I’ve wanted to know.
And I would have to say THAT makes all the difference…
I love you, Currie