Taking it one step at a time means living in the present moment, letting life gradually reveal itself to us. Some people get nervous and want to know the final outcome. But how can we know an outcome that hasn't yet occurred? Trust in the process, and the perfect result will occur. [from Today’s Gift from Hazelden]
Sometimes are really weird, eh?! So sure you are DOing the “right thing” only to find out NOPE!!! Then the whole scene goes dark. In those times I find out I CAN make it through discomfort, silence, and no response. I am only BElieving I that I am “meant to” change what is. To rearrange the deck chairs on my wee Titanic.
I no longer want to know the end of the story. I don’t want to have something so much that it would BE too much and deny or prevent someone else’s need from BEing met.
So often I have thought I am less BEcause I am only me. And all, or almost all the while knowing whatever I have or am or DO is precisely right. It sounds or reads better than I am at DOing it.
I think the key is to eliminate judgments. Using categories. Or pretty much anything that divides and segregates us from each other.
I love you, Currie